I am by no means an expert, but wanted to follow up to let folks know what my kid ended up preferring (we’ve tested various mechanical pencils and leads).
Of the standard/nonmechanical pencils, we tried:
- Ticonderoga, #2
- Mitsu-Bishi 9000, B
- Tombow, 2558 B
- TreeSmart, (#2?) from recycled newspaper
All of those were a bust, but if need be, the Ticonderoga was the best tolerated.
In terms of mechanical pencils, we tried:
- Zebra #2
- Papermate Handwriting (triangular barrel), 1.3mm
- Papermate, 0.7mm
- Pentel Graph 1000 for Pro, 0.7mm
- Pentel GraphGear 1000, 0.7mm
- TWSBI Jr. Pagoda, 0.7mm
- Tombow Mono Work, 1.3mm
- Uni-Ball 207, 0.7mm
The first three were tried before I came to the forum. If he had to use a pencil, he preferred the regular Papermate 0.7 to the others. But any pen was always hugely preferred over any pencil.
I underestimated how much the hand-feel mattered to my kid before we even got to the noise level of the lead. After holding the two Pentels and the TWSBI, they were all nixed, without a word being written.
The Tombow Mono Work was his clear favorite in hand, followed by the Uni-Ball 207. I think that he preferred the larger diameter of these.
Then we came to the leads. We tried:
- The leads that came with the Tombow Mono & Uni-ball 207
- Pentel Super Hi-Polymer Lead, 0.7mm B
- Pilot Neox High-Purity Graphite Lead, 0.7mm B
- Uni Smudge-Proof lead, 0.7mm B
- Pentel Ain Lead, 0.7mm B
- Pentel Ain Lead, 1.3mm B
- Bild, 1.3mm HB
- June Gold, 1.3mm HB
He liked the leads that came with the Tombow and Uni-ball as well as the Pentel Super Hi-Polymer. Yay! He did not like the Uni Smudge-Proof (which I guess is not what’s in the Uni-ball 207, or the difference between B and HB makes a difference to him in the opposite way that I thought it would have). Nor did he like either Pentel Ain Lead, though I think it ranked higher than the Uni Smudge-Proof. I then took out some old 1.3mm leads I had purchased from Amazon as spares for the Papermate Handwriting pencils (Bild and June Gold). To my happy surprise, he liked those, too!
So the only thing I figured out with my kid was that a larger diameter utensil was preferred, that the extra smoothness of a B over an HB was either nonexistent or that my son prefers the ever so slight difference in feedback of an HB, and that the larger lead sizes generally met with his approval (whether it’s the size that was preferred or that once leads get to that diameter they have much more similar characteristics than smaller size leads).
Thank you very much, @First_Sail, for setting us in the direction of the Tombow Mono and the Pentel Super Hi-Polymer lead. Your help has very much been appreciated!